Couples Therapy & Marriage Counseling

Couples therapy is a structured, collaborative form of therapy in which partners work with a trained clinician to understand their patterns, improve communication, and strengthen their relationship. At PPG, we do not take sides or assign blame. The relationship is the client.

Couples seek help for many reasons: recurring arguments, growing distance, a major life transition, a breach of trust, or uncertainty about the future. Our clinicians use evidence-based approaches, centered on the Gottman Method, to give you practical tools for communicating, resolving conflict, and reconnecting. Sessions are available in person and online.

What We Help With

Communication & Conflict Patterns

Understanding and changing recurring cycles of conflict.

Intimacy, Trust & Connection

Rebuilding emotional and physical closeness and trust.

Life Transitions & Outside Pressures

Working through major changes and stressors together.

How Couples Therapy Works at PPG

The Gottman Method

Our couples clinicians are all trained in the Gottman Method, a research-based approach that begins with a structured assessment of your relationship's strengths and challenges. The results guide treatment, so the work focuses on where communication is breaking down and builds practical skills to repair it.

Interrupting Destructive Patterns

Many couples get stuck in recurring cycles of conflict. Your therapist helps you notice these patterns as they happen and practice alternatives, such as raising concerns without criticism and listening so that your partner feels heard.

Rebuilding Secure Attachment

Drawing on principles from Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), your therapist looks beneath the surface of recurring arguments to the emotional needs and vulnerabilities that drive them. The aim is to replace insecurity and distance with greater safety, empathy, and mutual respect.

What to Expect

You don't need to have it all figured out before you reach out.

  1. 1

    A Free Consultation

    A 15-30 minute call to learn what you are looking for, answer your questions, and match you with a clinician whose training and style fit your relationship. One member or both members of the couple can be present for the call as suits you.

  2. 2

    Assessment

    Treatment begins with a joint session, followed by an individual session with each partner and a feedback session. As part of the assessment, each partner completes the Gottman Relationship Checkup, an online questionnaire that helps your therapist understand your relationship's strengths and challenges and plan the work.

  3. 3

    Ongoing Sessions

    Your therapist recommends how often to meet and reviews progress with you regularly. The plan can change according to your needs.

Care That Connects Across Specialties

Relationship difficulties often interact with individual concerns such as anxiety, depression, and burnout, ADHD, or a history of trauma. Because we are a multi-specialty group, if one or both partners would benefit from individual therapy, your couples therapist can, with your consent, coordinate with a colleague who is working with one of you. This keeps your personal goals and your goals for the relationship moving in the same direction.

Our couples clinicians are approved members of the Gottman Referral Network and the Gottman Relationship Checkup program.

Gottman Checkup Approved Member
Gottman Referral Network Approved
Your team

Meet our specialists in this area

Emily Bly, PhD

Emily Bly, PhD

CEO, Clinical Director, Licensed Clinical Psychologist

Dr. Bly founded Psychology Partners Group on the idea that people do best when they're matched with the right expertise and feel at ease with their clinician. She works with adults, adolescents, and couples on anxiety, depression, ADHD challenges, relationship strain, and major life transitions, including infertility, adoption, and divorce.

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Gerard Micera, PsyD

Gerard Micera, PsyD

Licensed Clinical Psychologist

Dr. Micera is a licensed clinical psychologist and performing arts educator who works with children, adolescents, adults, couples, and families on anxiety, depression, and life transitions. His style is warm, humorous, and engaging.

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Jessica Duffy, LCSW

Jessica Duffy, LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Worker

Jessica is a licensed clinical social worker with twelve years of experience supporting adolescents, adults, couples, and families through anxiety, ADHD, trauma, and family or relationship conflict.

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Megan Sedita, PsyD

Megan Sedita, PsyD

Licensed Clinical Psychologist

Dr. Sedita is a licensed clinical psychologist who works with adults, adolescents, and couples on trauma, anxiety, mood, and relationship difficulties. She trained at the VA Hudson Valley Health Care System, working with Veterans.

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Eva Leighton, PhD

Eva Leighton, PhD

CFO, Training Director

Dr. Leighton is a licensed clinical psychologist who works with adults, couples, children, and families on trauma recovery, substance use, parenting and behavioral concerns, and relationship difficulties. Her style is warm and supportive, with a natural sense of humor.

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FAQ

Common questions

What is couples therapy?

Couples therapy is a structured form of therapy in which partners work together with a trained clinician to understand their patterns, improve communication, resolve conflict, and strengthen their connection. The relationship, rather than either partner, is the focus of treatment.

Do you offer marriage counseling?

Yes. Marriage counseling and couples therapy describe the same work, and our approach is the same whether or not partners are married.

How do we know if we need couples therapy?

You do not need to be in crisis. Couples often seek help when arguments keep repeating, when they feel distant or disconnected, after a breach of trust, during a major transition such as becoming parents, or when they are unsure about the future of the relationship. If you are not sure, a free consultation is a low-pressure way to talk it through.

What happens in the first sessions?

Treatment begins with a joint session, followed by an individual session with each partner and a feedback session. Each partner also completes the Gottman Relationship Checkup, an online questionnaire. Together these give your therapist a clear picture of your history, your strengths, and the areas that need attention, and they guide the treatment plan.

How long does couples therapy take?

It depends on your goals and the concerns you bring. Your therapist will discuss a timeline with you after the first few sessions and review progress with you regularly.

Do both partners need to attend?

Couples therapy works best when both partners take part. If only one partner is willing to begin, individual therapy can help you understand the relationship and decide how to proceed. If you are unsure whether to stay together, discernment counseling is another option.

Do you offer couples therapy in Spanish?

Yes. Lorens Hidalgo, LCSW, is a bilingual therapist who provides couples therapy in Spanish.

Can we do couples therapy online?

Yes. Sessions are available in person at our Chappaqua and Hartsdale offices and by secure video.

Is couples therapy appropriate when there is domestic violence?

Couples therapy is not recommended when there is ongoing physical abuse or coercive control, and your therapist will screen for this during assessment. If it is a concern, we can help connect you with appropriate resources and individual support.

How do we get started?

Schedule a free consultation. We will talk briefly about what you are looking for and match you with a clinician whose training and style fit your relationship.