Emotion-Focused Family Therapy (EFFT)

What Is Emotion-Focused Family Therapy (EFFT)?

Emotion-Focused Family Therapy (EFFT) is an approach that helps parents and other caregivers support a loved one with an eating disorder. Caregivers learn to understand and respond to emotions, including their own, so they can take a steady part in recovery.

EFFT is part of the Eating Disorders Program at PPG, directed by Dr. Heather Rosen. Sessions are available in person at our Chappaqua and Hartsdale offices and online.

Who EFFT Is For

EFFT is for parents, partners, and other caregivers who are supporting someone with an eating disorder. The person receiving care may be a child, a teen, or an adult.

EFFT can be used alongside Family-Based Treatment, Enhanced CBT (CBT-E), or other eating disorder treatment. It does not replace them. It adds support for the caregiver's part in recovery.

What EFFT Helps With

Hard Conversations About Food

Caregivers practice ways to talk about eating, weight, and recovery that keep the conversation going.

Mealtime Conflict

Caregivers build skills for staying steady at meals when emotions run high.

Strong Emotions at Home

Caregivers learn to respond to anger, fear, and sadness with empathy and clear limits.

Emotional Blocks

Worry, guilt, and fear can make it harder to respond the way a caregiver wants to. EFFT helps caregivers work through them.

Setbacks and Slow Progress

Caregivers prepare for hard stretches of recovery and learn how to stay supportive through them.

Caregiver Well-Being

Caregiving takes energy. EFFT includes attention to the caregiver's own needs and support.

How EFFT works

Four parts of EFFT

  1. 1

    Understanding Emotions

    Caregivers learn what emotions are for, how they show up in an eating disorder, and why responding to them matters in recovery.

  2. 2

    Noticing What Gets in the Way

    Caregivers identify the worries, beliefs, and feelings that can make it harder to respond the way they want to, and begin to work through them.

  3. 3

    Practicing Emotion Coaching

    Caregivers practice responding to a loved one’s feelings with attention and empathy, with the support of the clinician in session.

  4. 4

    Using the Skills at Home

    Caregivers apply what they have learned to meals, hard conversations, and setbacks, and review how it is going with their clinician.

The EFFT Approach to Care

EFFT is collaborative and skills-based. It does not look for fault. Eating disorders have biological, psychological, and social causes, and caregivers are an important part of recovery. Your clinician teaches skills, practices them with you in session, and helps you apply them at home.

With your consent, your EFFT clinician coordinates with the rest of the care team, such as a therapist, a dietitian, and a physician, so that the skills you learn fit the treatment plan.

What to Expect

A Free Consultation

We talk briefly about what you are looking for and match you with a clinician whose training and style fit your needs.

An Assessment

Your clinician learns about your loved one's care so far, the support you already have, and what you hope to change.

A Treatment Plan

Sessions focus on the skills that fit your situation. We coordinate with your existing providers and help you add others, such as a dietitian or physician, if needed.

Care That Connects Across Specialties

EFFT is often one part of a broader plan. Our clinicians work across specialties, and with your consent your EFFT clinician can coordinate with colleagues across the practice.

FAQ

Common questions

What is Emotion-Focused Family Therapy (EFFT)?

EFFT is an approach that helps parents and other caregivers support a loved one with an eating disorder. Caregivers learn to understand and respond to emotions, including their own, so they can help with recovery.

Who is EFFT for?

EFFT is for parents, partners, and other caregivers who are supporting someone with an eating disorder. The person with the eating disorder may be a child, a teen, or an adult.

Is EFFT the same as Family-Based Treatment (FBT)?

No. FBT is a full treatment for adolescents with eating disorders in which parents take an active role in restoring eating and health at home. EFFT focuses on the emotional side of caregiving and can be used alongside FBT or other treatment.

Does EFFT blame parents for the eating disorder?

No. Eating disorders have biological, psychological, and social causes. EFFT does not look for fault. It gives caregivers skills and support for the role they have in recovery.

How is EFFT different from family therapy?

Family therapy usually works on how the whole family communicates and functions. EFFT is centered on caregivers and teaches specific skills, such as responding to strong emotions and working through the feelings that can make it harder to help.

What is emotion coaching?

Emotion coaching is a way of responding to feelings with attention and empathy. A caregiver helps a loved one notice and name what they feel and feel understood, which can make hard moments easier to get through.

Can EFFT be combined with other eating disorder treatment?

Yes. With your consent, your EFFT clinician coordinates with the rest of the care team, such as a therapist, a dietitian, and a physician. EFFT can be used alongside FBT, CBT-E, or other treatment.

Do you offer EFFT online?

Yes. We offer EFFT in person at our Chappaqua and Hartsdale offices and by secure video for people across New York State.

How do I get started?

Schedule a free consultation. We will talk briefly about what you are looking for and match you with a clinician whose training and style fit your needs.

What if I am in crisis or having a medical emergency?

PPG provides outpatient care and is not an emergency service. If you are having thoughts of harming yourself, call or text 988, the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, at any time. If you are in immediate danger, or someone is fainting or has chest pain, call 911.