Grief Counseling & Life Transitions

Grief and major life changes can leave you feeling exhausted, unsettled, and unsure of what comes next. Therapy offers a place to process what has happened at your own pace and to rebuild routines that feel manageable. Sessions are available in person and online.

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What Is Grief Counseling?

Grief counseling supports people who are coping with loss. That includes the death of a loved one, and it also includes other significant losses, such as the end of a marriage or relationship, a serious illness, a pregnancy loss, or a change in work, home, or identity.

There is no single way to grieve and no set timeline. Therapy is not about moving you past your loss quickly. It gives you room to understand what you are experiencing, to cope with the practical and emotional demands of this period, and to find ways of carrying the loss forward.

Who Grief Counseling Can Help

You do not need to be in crisis, and the loss does not need to be recent. Many people come to therapy months or years later.

Loss of a Loved One

You are coping with the death of a family member, partner, friend, or child, whether it was sudden or expected.

Divorce or Separation

You are adjusting to the end of a relationship and the changes that come with it.

Illness and Caregiving

You are facing a serious diagnosis, or caring for someone who is ill or declining.

Major Life Changes

A move, job loss, retirement, or an empty nest has changed how you see your life.

Grief That Feels Stuck

Time has passed, but guilt, regret, or intense distress still interferes with daily life.

Changes in Identity

You are unsure who you are or what you want now that your circumstances have shifted.

How Our Approach Works

Making Sense of the Loss

Grief often brings repeated questions about what happened and what could have been done differently. Therapy offers an unhurried space to work through those thoughts and to understand how the loss is changing your life.

Managing Daily Life

Grief can affect sleep, concentration, energy, and decision-making. Your therapist helps you focus on practical steps, such as setting boundaries, making decisions, and rebuilding a daily routine that feels manageable.

Therapeutic Methods

Narrative Therapy

Explores the stories we tell about a loss and about ourselves, and helps you shape an account of your experience that feels more accurate and more your own.

CBT for Prolonged Grief

Addresses thought patterns, such as guilt, self-blame, and avoidance, that can keep grief intense and make it harder to move through.

Meaning-Centered Work

Helps you reflect on what the person, relationship, or period of life meant to you, and how to honor it while building a life going forward.

Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT)

Teaches you to make room for painful emotions rather than fight them, while taking steps toward what matters to you.

What to Expect

You don't need to have it all figured out before you reach out.

  1. 1

    A Free Consultation.

    We talk briefly about what you are coping with and match you with a clinician whose training and style fit your needs.

  2. 2

    Understanding Your Experience.

    In the first sessions, your therapist learns about your loss, your history, and how you are managing day to day.

  3. 3

    Support at Your Pace.

    Together you choose the focus of your sessions, whether that is processing the loss, coping with daily demands, or planning for what comes next.

Care That Connects Across Specialties

Grief often overlaps with other concerns. Our clinicians work across specialties, so when you need additional support, we can coordinate within the practice with your consent.

Your team

Clinicians Who Work With Grief and Life Transitions

Marissa Caldarola, LCSW

Marissa Caldarola, LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Worker

Marissa is an EMDR-trained therapist with more than seven years of experience treating trauma, substance use, anxiety, and depression in children, adolescents, adults and couples.

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Lorens Hidalgo, LCSW

Lorens Hidalgo, LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Worker

Lorens is a bilingual therapist who offers care in English and Spanish to adults, adolescents, couples and families dealing with trauma, anxiety, depression, and relationship conflict. Her approach is attachment-focused and psychodynamic.

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Jessica Duffy, LCSW

Jessica Duffy, LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Worker

Jessica is a licensed clinical social worker with twelve years of experience supporting adolescents, adults, couples, and families through anxiety, ADHD, trauma, and family or relationship conflict.

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Emily Bly, PhD

Emily Bly, PhD

CEO, Clinical Director, Licensed Clinical Psychologist

Dr. Bly founded Psychology Partners Group on the idea that people do best when they're matched with the right expertise and feel at ease with their clinician. She works with adults, adolescents, and couples on anxiety, depression, ADHD challenges, relationship strain, and major life transitions, including infertility, adoption, and divorce.

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Eva Leighton, PhD

Eva Leighton, PhD

CFO, Training Director

Dr. Leighton is a licensed clinical psychologist who works with adults, couples, children, and families on trauma recovery, substance use, parenting and behavioral concerns, and relationship difficulties. Her style is warm and supportive, with a natural sense of humor.

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Gerard Micera, PsyD

Gerard Micera, PsyD

Licensed Clinical Psychologist

Dr. Micera is a licensed clinical psychologist and performing arts educator who works with children, adolescents, adults, couples, and families on anxiety, depression, and life transitions. His style is warm, humorous, and engaging.

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Lily Brown, PhD

Lily Brown, PhD

Clinical Psychologist, Postdoctoral Resident

Dr. Brown is a postdoctoral resident in clinical psychology who works with adolescents and adults on trauma, anxiety, depression, and life transitions. Her approach is collaborative, integrative and grounded in CBT and other evidence-based models.

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Megan Sedita, PsyD

Megan Sedita, PsyD

Licensed Clinical Psychologist

Dr. Sedita is a licensed clinical psychologist who works with adults, adolescents, and couples on trauma, anxiety, mood, and relationship difficulties. She trained at the VA Hudson Valley Health Care System, working with Veterans.

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Melissa Klay, PhD, LCAT, ATR-BC

Melissa Klay, PhD, LCAT, ATR-BC

Licensed Clinical Psychologist, Director of Art Therapy Program

Dr. Klay is a licensed psychologist and board-certified art therapist with more than 25 years of experience treating complex trauma, eating disorders, anxiety, and emotional dysregulation in children, adolescents, and adults. She directs PPG’s art therapy program.

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FAQ

Common questions

What is grief counseling?

Grief counseling is a form of therapy that helps people cope with loss. It offers a space to process painful emotions, make sense of what has happened, and manage the practical demands of daily life during a difficult period.

What counts as a life transition?

A life transition is a significant change that affects your sense of stability or identity. Common examples include divorce, a serious illness, a move, a job loss, retirement, and becoming a caregiver.

Do I need to have lost someone to see a grief counselor?

No. Grief can follow many kinds of loss, including the end of a relationship, a pregnancy loss, a health diagnosis, or a major change in your life circumstances.

How do I know if what I am feeling is normal grief or something more?

Grief looks different for everyone, and intense emotions are an expected part of loss. It may help to talk with a clinician if distress remains severe and interferes with daily life, if you feel unable to function, or if you have lost interest in things for an extended period. A clinician can help determine whether depression, trauma, or prolonged grief is also present.

How long does grief counseling take?

There is no set timeline. Some people benefit from a few months of support, while others continue longer. Your therapist will talk with you about goals and revisit them as your needs change.

Is grief the same as depression?

No, although they can overlap. Grief tends to come in waves and is often tied to reminders of the loss, while depression involves a more constant low mood and loss of interest. Your therapist can help you tell the difference and recommend the right support.

Can my partner or child also get support?

Yes. Because our practice includes couples, child, and adolescent clinicians, we can help family members find their own support, and with your consent, coordinate care within the practice.

Can I do grief counseling online?

Yes. Sessions are available in person at our Chappaqua and Hartsdale offices and by secure video.

Do your clinicians prescribe medication?

Our clinicians provide therapy and do not prescribe medication. If medication may be helpful, we can coordinate with your primary care doctor or a psychiatric prescriber, with your consent.

What if I am having thoughts of harming myself?

PPG provides outpatient care and is not an emergency service. If you are having thoughts of harming yourself, call or text 988, the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, at any time. If you are in immediate danger, call 911.

How do I get started?

Schedule a free consultation. We will talk briefly about what you are looking for and match you with a clinician whose training and style fit your needs.