Were You Told You Were “Mature for Your Age” as a Child? It Might Be Impacting You Now. Being the “easy kid” or the “old soul” often feels like a compliment, but it can come with a hidden cost in adulthood. In a recent feature for Parade, our Director, Dr. Emily Bly, dives into why these “good kid” traits are often survival mechanisms that lead to perfectionism, hyper-independence, and burnout later in life. If you find it hard to ask for help or feel guilty for having needs, this deep dive is for you. Learn how to trade the “mature” label for true emotional freedom.