Teen Depression & Self-Harm Therapy

Depression in teens does not always look like sadness. It can show up as irritability, withdrawal, exhaustion, or a drop in school and friendships, and for some teens it includes self-harm. Therapy helps teens understand what is driving their pain, build skills to manage intense emotions safely, and reconnect with the people and activities that matter to them. Parents are part of the work. Sessions are available in person and online.

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Understanding Teen Depression and Self-Harm

Depression in adolescence is common and treatable. It can look like low mood, but it can also look like anger, numbness, or a loss of interest in things a teen used to enjoy. Self-harm is often a way of coping with emotional pain that feels unmanageable in the moment. It is a sign that a teen needs support and better tools, not a sign of failure by the teen or the family.

Teens who are exploring who they are, including LGBTQ+ and gender-diverse teens, may face added stress at school, with peers, or at home. Our clinicians offer a respectful, nonjudgmental space to talk about identity, belonging, and how those experiences affect mood.

Concerns We Treat

Persistent Low Mood

Ongoing sadness, emptiness, or loss of interest that lasts for weeks and affects school, friendships, and home life.

Withdrawal and Isolation

Pulling away from family and friends, spending long stretches alone, or stopping activities that used to matter.

Irritability and Anger

Short temper, outbursts, or conflict at home that can be depression showing up as anger.

Self-Harm

Hurting oneself as a way to cope with overwhelming emotion, and the urges that come with it.

Hopelessness and Thoughts of Suicide

Feeling that things will not improve, or having thoughts of ending one’s life. These are taken seriously and assessed directly.

Identity and Belonging

Questions about identity, fitting in, or feeling different that weigh on mood and self-esteem.

If your Teen Is In Crisis

PPG provides outpatient care and is not an emergency service. If your teen is having thoughts of harming themselves, call or text 988, the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, at any time. If your teen is in immediate danger, call 911 or go to the nearest emergency room.

How Our Approach Works

Understanding the Why

We look at what is behind the withdrawal or distress, whether it is depression, pressure at school, trauma, conflict at home, or questions about identity and belonging. Naming the pain makes it less isolating for your teen and for your family.

Building Safety and Skills

We teach practical skills for handling intense emotions and urges, including distress tolerance, emotion regulation, and communication. We also build a safety plan with your teen and family, so everyone knows what to do when things get hard.

Therapeutic Methods

DBT-Informed Skills

Skills for tolerating distress, regulating emotions, and communicating needs. Teens learn to get through intense moments without turning to self-harm, and parents learn the same language.

Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy

Helps teens notice and change the thoughts and patterns that keep depression going, and re-engage in activities that improve mood.

Safety Planning

A written plan, created with your teen and family, that names warning signs, coping steps, people to contact, and how to reach help. We review and update it as treatment progresses.

Parent Guidance and Family Sessions

Guidance on responding to your teen with support rather than alarm, and, when helpful, sessions that include the whole family to repair communication and rebuild connection.

What to Expect

You don’t need to have it all figured out before you reach out.

  1. 1

    A Free Consultation

    We talk briefly about what your teen is experiencing and match your family with a clinician whose training fits your needs.

  2. 2

    Understanding Your Teen

    Your clinician learns about your teen’s mood, safety, relationships, and daily life, and talks with you about goals and any immediate concerns.

  3. 3

    A Treatment Plan

    Treatment typically combines sessions with your teen, skills practice, a written safety plan when needed, and guidance for parents. Goals are reviewed regularly.

Care That Connects Across Specialties

Depression and self-harm often overlap with anxiety, attention difficulties, trauma, or family stress. Our clinicians work across specialties, and with your consent your teen’s therapist can coordinate with colleagues across the practice.

Your team

Clinicians Who Work With Teen Depression and Self-Harm

Valerie Scelsa, PhD

Valerie Scelsa, PhD

Licensed Clinical Psychologist

Dr. Scelsa specializes in anxiety, OCD, ADHD, ARFID and related behavioral challenges in children, adolescents, and young adults, and coaches parents to support their child’s progress.

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Melissa Klay, PhD, LCAT, ATR-BC

Melissa Klay, PhD, LCAT, ATR-BC

Licensed Clinical Psychologist, Director of Art Therapy Program

Dr. Klay is a licensed psychologist and board-certified art therapist with more than 25 years of experience treating complex trauma, eating disorders, anxiety, and emotional dysregulation in children, adolescents, and adults. She directs PPG’s art therapy program.

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Emily Mudge, LCSW

Emily Mudge, LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Worker

Emily is a licensed clinical social worker and parent coach who works with children, adolescents, adults and families on anxiety, depression, and emotional dysregulation. She helps parents turn what happens in therapy into everyday strategies at home.

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Megan Sedita, PsyD

Megan Sedita, PsyD

Licensed Clinical Psychologist

Dr. Sedita is a licensed clinical psychologist who works with adults, adolescents, and couples on trauma, anxiety, mood, and relationship difficulties. She trained at the VA Hudson Valley Health Care System, working with Veterans.

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Lily Brown, PhD

Lily Brown, PhD

Clinical Psychologist, Postdoctoral Resident

Dr. Brown is a postdoctoral resident in clinical psychology who works with adolescents and adults on trauma, anxiety, depression, and life transitions. Her approach is collaborative, integrative and grounded in CBT and other evidence-based models.

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Gerard Micera, PsyD

Gerard Micera, PsyD

Licensed Clinical Psychologist

Dr. Micera is a licensed clinical psychologist and performing arts educator who works with children, adolescents, adults, couples, and families on anxiety, depression, and life transitions. His style is warm, humorous, and engaging.

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Emily Bly, PhD

Emily Bly, PhD

CEO, Clinical Director, Licensed Clinical Psychologist

Dr. Bly founded Psychology Partners Group on the idea that people do best when they're matched with the right expertise and feel at ease with their clinician. She works with adults, adolescents, and couples on anxiety, depression, ADHD challenges, relationship strain, and major life transitions, including infertility, adoption, and divorce.

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Marissa Caldarola, LCSW

Marissa Caldarola, LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Worker

Marissa is an EMDR-trained therapist with more than seven years of experience treating trauma, substance use, anxiety, and depression in children, adolescents, adults and couples.

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FAQ

Common questions

What does depression look like in teens?

Depression in teens does not always look like sadness. It can appear as irritability, withdrawal from friends and activities, changes in sleep or appetite, trouble concentrating, a drop in grades, or statements of hopelessness. If these changes last more than a couple of weeks or interfere with daily life, an evaluation with a clinician can help clarify what is going on.

Does self-harm mean my teen is suicidal?

Not necessarily. Many teens who self-harm are trying to cope with painful emotions rather than end their life. But self-harm is a serious sign that a teen is struggling, and it can be associated with thoughts of suicide. Our clinicians ask about both directly, assess risk throughout treatment, and build a safety plan with your teen and your family.

What is DBT-informed therapy?

Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) is an evidence-based approach that teaches skills for tolerating distress, regulating emotions, communicating effectively, and staying present. DBT-informed therapy draws on these skills within individual sessions and is often used with teens who have intense emotions or who self-harm. Parents are encouraged to learn the skills as well.

How are parents involved in treatment?

Parents are partners in care. Alongside your teen’s sessions, your clinician will share how to respond when your teen is struggling, how to talk about difficult topics without judgment, and how to support skills at home. Your teen’s sessions are private, except when there is a safety concern, and your clinician will talk with you and your teen about how information is shared.

Do you work with LGBTQ+ and gender-diverse teens?

Yes. We welcome LGBTQ+ and gender-diverse teens and provide a respectful, nonjudgmental space to talk about identity, relationships, and the stress that can come with them. Identity itself is not a problem to treat, and we also support parents who want to understand and support their teen.

Do your clinicians prescribe medication?

Our clinicians provide therapy and do not prescribe medication. Some teens benefit from a medication evaluation alongside therapy, and we can coordinate with your teen’s pediatrician or a psychiatric prescriber, with your consent.

What if my teen needs more support than weekly therapy?

Some teens need more support than weekly outpatient therapy, such as an intensive outpatient or partial hospitalization program. If that is the case, your clinician will talk with you about options, help you find an appropriate program, and coordinate care with that team.

Can my teen do therapy online?

Yes. Sessions are available in person at our Chappaqua and Hartsdale offices and by secure video.

What if my teen is in crisis?

PPG provides outpatient care and is not an emergency service. If your teen is having thoughts of harming themselves, call or text 988, the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, at any time. If your teen is in immediate danger, call 911.

How do I get started?

Schedule a free consultation. We will talk briefly about what you are looking for and match your family with a clinician whose training and style fit your needs.