Parenting Support for Behavior & Routines

Parenting support for behavior and routines helps families who are stuck in repeating power struggles, tantrums, sibling conflict, or daily routines that keep falling apart. Our clinicians work with parents, and with the whole family when it helps, to understand what is driving the pattern and put practical strategies in place at home. Sessions are available in person and online.

When a household is under strain, it is easy to focus on one child’s behavior or on who is at fault. We look at the whole picture instead, including routines, expectations, how each person responds, and what your child may be trying to communicate. The goal is a home where expectations are clear, conflict is easier to manage, and everyone feels respected and connected.

How Family & Parent Support Works

We begin by understanding your household: who lives in it, what a typical day looks like, and where things tend to break down, such as mornings, homework, screens, bedtime, or time between siblings. Patterns often make sense once they are mapped, and small changes in how adults respond can shift how everyone else does.

From there, your clinician works with you to set clear, consistent expectations, build routines that are realistic for your family, and practice calm ways of responding when things go off track. The work centers on what you can use at home between sessions.

When Families Reach Out

Families come to us with a range of concerns, and many involve more than one at a time.

Power Struggles

Daily arguments over homework, screens, chores, or bedtime that leave everyone worn out.

Tantrums and Big Reactions

Outbursts that are hard to predict or respond to, in younger children and older ones.

Sibling Conflict

Frequent fighting or rivalry that keeps pulling parents into the middle.

Routines That Keep Falling Apart

Mornings, evenings, and transitions that start tense and stay that way.

Parents on Different Pages

Different views on rules and discipline, which can leave children unsure what to expect.

Tension in the Household

A sense that everyone is on edge, or conflict that has built up over time.

Methods We Use

Your clinician will combine approaches based on your family’s needs and the ages of your children.

Structural Family Therapy

Strengthens the parent role so adults can lead with clear, consistent expectations, and looks at how family patterns shape behavior.

Behavior Strategies for Home

Clear limits, positive reinforcement, and consistent follow-through, drawn from behavioral parent training.

Sibling Conflict Strategies

Practical approaches that reduce fighting and support a better relationship, including when parents step in and when they step back.

Clarifying Family Values

Parents identify what matters most to them, then use it to guide rules, routines, and decisions.

What to Expect

You don’t need to have it all figured out before you reach out.

  1. 1

    A Free Consultation

    We will talk briefly about what is happening at home and what you hope will change, then match your family with a clinician.

  2. 2

    Getting to Know Your Family

    Your clinician meets with you, and sometimes your child or the whole family, to understand your routines, concerns, and goals. Some families begin with parents alone.

  3. 3

    Building and Practicing the Plan

    Sessions are usually weekly to start, 45–60 minutes. You and your clinician build a plan for your household, try it at home, and adjust it as you go.

Care That Connects Across Specialties

Behavior concerns often have more than one source. When it helps, your clinician works with colleagues across the practice, so your family does not have to start over.

Your team

Meet Our Family & Parenting Clinicians

Emily Bly, PhD

Emily Bly, PhD

CEO, Clinical Director, Licensed Clinical Psychologist

Dr. Bly founded Psychology Partners Group on the idea that people do best when they're matched with the right expertise and feel at ease with their clinician. She works with adults, adolescents, and couples on anxiety, depression, ADHD challenges, relationship strain, and major life transitions, including infertility, adoption, and divorce.

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Eva Leighton, PhD

Eva Leighton, PhD

CFO, Training Director

Dr. Leighton is a licensed clinical psychologist who works with adults, couples, children, and families on trauma recovery, substance use, parenting and behavioral concerns, and relationship difficulties. Her style is warm and supportive, with a natural sense of humor.

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Marissa Caldarola, LCSW

Marissa Caldarola, LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Worker

Marissa is an EMDR-trained therapist with more than seven years of experience treating trauma, substance use, anxiety, and depression in children, adolescents, adults and couples.

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Emily Mudge, LCSW

Emily Mudge, LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Worker

Emily is a licensed clinical social worker and parent coach who works with children, adolescents, adults and families on anxiety, depression, and emotional dysregulation. She helps parents turn what happens in therapy into everyday strategies at home.

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Valerie Scelsa, PhD

Valerie Scelsa, PhD

Licensed Clinical Psychologist

Dr. Scelsa specializes in anxiety, OCD, ADHD, ARFID and related behavioral challenges in children, adolescents, and young adults, and coaches parents to support their child’s progress.

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Melissa Klay, PhD, LCAT, ATR-BC

Melissa Klay, PhD, LCAT, ATR-BC

Licensed Clinical Psychologist, Director of Art Therapy Program

Dr. Klay is a licensed psychologist and board-certified art therapist with more than 25 years of experience treating complex trauma, eating disorders, anxiety, and emotional dysregulation in children, adolescents, and adults. She directs PPG’s art therapy program.

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Megan Sedita, PsyD

Megan Sedita, PsyD

Licensed Clinical Psychologist

Dr. Sedita is a licensed clinical psychologist who works with adults, adolescents, and couples on trauma, anxiety, mood, and relationship difficulties. She trained at the VA Hudson Valley Health Care System, working with Veterans.

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FAQ

Common questions

What is parenting support for behavior and routines?

Parenting support for behavior and routines is therapy that helps parents, and sometimes the whole family, address power struggles, tantrums, sibling conflict, and daily routines that are not working. A clinician helps you understand what is driving the pattern and put clear, practical strategies in place at home.

Is parenting support right for my family?

It may be a good fit if conflict, outbursts, or struggling routines are affecting daily life at home and you want practical strategies you can use between sessions. A consultation call is a good place to talk through what you are seeing and which kind of support makes sense.

Does my child need to attend sessions?

It depends on your child’s age and what you are working on. Some sessions are with parents alone, and some include your child or the whole family. Your clinician will recommend a format after getting to know your situation.

How is this different from family therapy?

Family therapy brings family members together to work on relationships and communication. Parenting support centers on behavior, routines, and expectations at home, and often begins with parents. The two can be combined when it helps.

How is this different from SPACE or Parent Management Training?

SPACE and Parent Management Training are structured, parent-led programs with a defined set of steps. Parenting support for behavior and routines is more flexible and draws on family therapy and behavioral strategies, tailored to your household. Your clinician can help you decide which fits best.

How long does it take?

It varies with your family’s goals and how long the pattern has been in place. Some families work together for a few months, while others continue longer. Your clinician will review progress with you regularly and adjust the plan as needed.

Do you offer online sessions?

Yes. Sessions are available in person at our Chappaqua and Hartsdale offices and by secure video.

What should I do if my child is in crisis?

PPG provides outpatient care and is not an emergency service. If your child is having thoughts of harming themselves, call or text 988, the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, at any time. If your child is in immediate danger, call 911.

How do I get started?

Schedule a free consultation. We will talk briefly about what you are looking for and match your family with a clinician whose training and style fit your needs.